Thanks for input. Im going to explain briefly without identifying information what im trying to achieve. Im trying to talk to my lawyer in a way that I can do so without holding a phone conversation, as I am constantly in plane trips, in public, and so on, and many times I cannot attend a meeting in a private way that allows me to talk without a lot of people listening. I manage client’s data and my own data if I have any doubts, and so I don’t want to have be talking about banking details, contracts and so on, so I wanted to find a way to safely have a written conversation. I don’t need to share big documents, only small files. I also wanted to avoid phones, as phones suck in general, and I certainly never enjoyed the fact that all these apps like Telegram and Signal force you to attach a phone number to it. I have looked at Signal and there is no way to isolate it into a Linux machine as any incoming chats on Signal show up on the laptop as well. Signal may be good to have a private phone conversation but that’s about it. I don’t feel confident typing anything relevant on a phone. And that’s assuming the phone isn’t recording the Signal’s call as well. Of course you also have to always trust the other end keeps things private.
So basically, I was looking to have a chat with temporary destruction enabled, and I have been testing Signal and SimpleX. Signal has temporary chat destruction, and it’s great since you can set it as low as 30 seconds, but the other end can disable it at any time. And like I said, I don’t really trust writting with a phone.
SimpleX seems like the only alternative that doesn’t attach your activity to a phone, and I can isolate this into my laptop, which I trust way more. However, im still not sure how the temporary chat thing works.
Why I can only enable temporary chat destruction for one week and beyond? Why I cannot set a custom amount of time, or just 30 seconds like Signal to simulate a spoken conversation? This is annoying.
Also, once the messages are deleted, are they really not recoverable? I don’t want banking details, contracts and so on, stored forever. I think I can keep them safely, but I have no control on the other end of the conversation, so we would rather not store everything that we chat about unless really needed, which we would move locally elsewhere.
Another question would be, once you set it to 1 week (I guess I will use this, since I cannot find anything lower than that) is the timer locally set, or while you are not online this timer does not continue to count?
Could you make a backup of the messages before the 1 week mark hits to permanently archive this chat, or is it impossible and the messages are deleted from both databases (both ends of the conversation) no matter what?
Also why isn’t there a mode to manually delete chats from both ends of the conversation? This is so annoying, same as on Signal. Why can’t one just choose what information is within the conversation? If someone says something I don’t like or don’t want to know or anything like that, and I don’t want to be connected to that, I should I have the freedom of deleting it from myself and from the other end, if both parties agree to this for the duration of the chat (not being disabled at will at any time). This is something I like about Telegram’s secret-chat feature, you can at least manually delete chats on both end of the conversation (however buggy it is, since sometimes previews show even tho the message was deleted…)
Anyway, just trying to learn about how this works.
That being said, im not sure from what im reading above. My lawyer is not a tech guy, but he has some good understandings on privacy and FOSS. I have known him for years, but sometimes I talk to people that I don’t know as much and may want to ask certain things, and I don’t want to be identified, so I thought this could be a good way to ask for things without revealing yourself until you really want to establish a professional relationship.
If the other person is not using a VPN or Tor, but has a decent setup such as not using Windows at least, and if I enable the 1-week deletion for the contents, and is overall a decent person that will keep things private, is this good enough? I would not be revealing any doxing information until I felt like it. What I want is to have a temporary written conversation, and get things deleted on both ends, until we agree to have a more stable work relationship and we know what is and isn’t safe to speak on a phone conversation so I can work on the move.
And is SimpleX any good for audio calls compared to Signal? Should I stick to Signal even tho phones generally suck? Sometimes I can do audio calls and im on the move, so a phone is better than having to carry a laptop.
The developer of SimpleX is participating here, so I hope I can get some input on this model from him, as well as the other guy which is also participating challenging this whole Tor or not Tor situation, and see what’s best for my use case here. Im not a tech guy myself, but I was also suprised to see you have to trust 2 servers with this, I tought this worked differently, but isn’t the same with Signal and others? There is always some server that gets information, and so the deal is that the software is properly coded and the server cannot ever access the information because it’s encrypted from end to end, but I thought SimpleX somehow worked fully locally without servers and was P2P but somehow allowed privacy with some clever things involving Tor or something. Anyway not a tech guy like I said, just trying to remain private when dealing with sensible information. No one’s lives is under treat here or anything wild, however I don’t want to take any chances when dealing with personal information, and I want to have as much control as possible of what happens on both ends of the conversation, and only reveal my identiy when I really want to.