Good morning – After facing yet another email address change due to yet more issues at the most recent email service, I’m considering just going with self-hosted email to avoid repeatedly letting all my family and friends and needed contacts know about yet another address change. However, hosting e…

[image] Reay: would it behoove me for any/all of the above to look at getting a more easily remembered/typed URL If you change email providers often, then yes, I would recommend getting a custom domain to use for addresses, and/or perhaps an aliasing service as well, so that if you change bet…

I agree with PaleCrow, just use a custom domain and shift to a provider you like. Email self-hosting is hard since you become responsible for security, backup, uptime, etc. I would not use a third party self hosting since email is the root of identity a lot of times, and google and other large email…

Thanks for the quick and helpful reply. To clarify, a custom domain is just a URL of my choosing, yes? So your suggesting getting a custom domain is confirming I should perhaps get something easier to remember and type as a domain, then use that as a primary account, if… aliased through a common em…

Thanks very much. [image] wontfix: It is a very easy process to migrate email providers once you have a domain. So yeah, this seems to be saying that I can choose a domain and then choose to, for instance, push emails to that domain (i.e. emails sent to me) through a third party email servic…

[image] Reay: push emails to that domain (i.e. emails sent to me) through a third party email service like Posteo. Am I right on that score? Yes. Posteo (or whichever service you use) should have some reference on what to do, but to sum it up, you basically have two steps (using Posteo as an …

A big issue with custom domain is privacy. The email is tied to your real identity. It may also more likely be a flagged for spamming.

I will try to answer one by one. [image] Reay: I can choose a domain and then choose to, for instance, push emails to that domain (i.e. emails sent to me) through a third party email service like Posteo. Am I right on that score? Yes, that is exactly right. You will own a domain abc./com and…

Thanks for adding this! Forgot about this since I just use cloudflare a lot. This is also something to consider @Reay .

Registering a domain does not in general require submitting an ID, at least for common top-level domains such as com, net, org. Nothing prevents you from providing a fake name and address, and most registrars offer to hide the WHOIS information, sometimes for an extra fee. Now there is the issue of …

When to self-host email/is it as secure as other email?

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Just saying, u shouldn’t buy ur domain from cloudflare. If u do, it will be stuck to cloudflare’s authorative dns nameservers and be unable to be changed. If u buy the domain from other places like namecheap, u are of course free to change its nameservers to cloudflare’s, but u can always change back to smth else if u change ur mind. Buying the domain from cloudflare locks u to their nameservers.

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When to self-host email/is it as secure as other email?

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