Is the glass full or empty. I have five years proof 3 companies have workers (at least) that are granted access to three systems. (Simplisafe/Apple ML/Webkit/Google Metadata at min) who cannot be trusted to explain motive/intent for severe stalking, death threats, intimidation and harassment. Every time you are not believed - it is dismissed as coincidence- there is in fact no help.
If you want to help them you have to err on the side of believing the concerned party until there is reasonable info to disbelieve.
People legitimately stalked and having privacy invasion require this. Else, we are not doing privacy- we are doing evasion. Which is fine - yet best to be honest about why we are taking the extraordinary measures and visiting this privacy specific forum to collaborate.
He wants to know how Facebook can know and I do not think we have enough information.
I can attest there are a lot of ways Facebook can know that are both technical and non-technical.
What are all of their techniques in inventory?
For me, there are physical- actual collab with people who know me, a window trick my husband and I have yet to figure out.
As well as logical- an alarm system company coordinating. Is a Facebook employee involved? Yes when I had an account they had my data takeout enabled and disabled my sisters and had edit procedures to how feeds are prioritized and presenting info. The adverts and feed modifications were based on inputs from people, interviews, metadata access to other systems, card transactions, and sms scraping. There are probably other ways too. I stopped taking inventory and closed my account w them.
Regardless of probability- if you do not want to them to continue presenting their capability to you, you have to leave them.
If you want to stick around, and try to figure out what they are doing, start with the advertising settings under account management. The data takeout logs were useful to see what IP’s had connected. Some test pages someone had built. Some messages that were likely acquired. The logs in data takeout were so good for piecing together some connection history, they wound up disabling my sisters.
I never spoke out against Zuckerberg yet I have had issues with their news of breaches and some solid review of how they are willing to mess with privacy interested parties.
Once I figured out I was dealing with one of their workers I tossed them.