Heavily torn on whether to buy a Fairphone with debloated Android or Pixel with GrapheneOS (maximum repairability vs maximum privacy)

I disagree with iPhones being more private, I heard they collect your data, just not as much as Fecesbook or Goggles. See Hated One’s videos on the iPhone for more info. You do you though, (not related to privacy) I don’t trust such a horrible company that uses slave labour and isn’t the most transparent company out there. And their software is annoying to customise, hence why I have a Framework laptop and riced Linux instead of using M*cOS