If there’s an article that would describe why I’m trying to distinct the online life away from my offline this is it.
Though there has been many cases where I wish to intertwine a little with it but I’m trying to be cautious to whom I’m intertwining or otherwise trying to not reveal my persistent pseudonym.
The distinction between IRL/meatspace and online/cyberspace still exists; they are not the same thing. Someone picking up fruit and vegetables as they shop for groceries, or huging another person, that sensory experience cannot be felt through cyberspace. Encouraging people to do things IRL instead of through an app or screen is still a thing.
However, more to the point of the article:
The separation between IRL/meatspace and online/cyberspace is eroding, either by someone choosing to mix them (as many people do), or via involuntary ubiquitous online and offline surveillance/tracking. The latter is the contention of the article as I see it.
Both online and offline activities are and always have been parts of someone’s real life, though possibly under separate identities. The phrase “IRL” or “in real life” is the problem the article identifies.