Note: For transparency, I’ve also posted a similar thread on the Techlore forums. I wanted to ask here as well to hear from the PrivacyGuides community specifically. If you’re on both forums and have already seen/replied to it there, please feel free to skip this. I’m not trying to spam, just looking for a broader range of opinions.
TL;DR
- I’m new-ish to implementing privacy in a practical way. I’m not trying to evade nation-states, but I do want to regain control of my data and avoid heavily AI-integrated ecosystems and mass surveillance, although I don’t mind some AI features where they would be most helpful.
- Current big subs: Proton Visionary, Kagi Ultimate, Windscribe Pro + ControlD.
I’m looking for:
- Feedback on my threat model and “diminishing returns” approach.
- Help designing a long-term privacy stack (VPN, DNS, email, drive, passwords, notes, photos, AI) that I can stick with for years without constant switching.
- Opinions on: Proton ecosystem vs diversification, pCloud vs Proton/self-hosting, Ente vs Immich, Bitwarden vs Proton Pass vs 1Password/KeePass, data removal tools, and browsers.
Constraints:
- Around 3–5 paid subscriptions max.
- Avoid OS-embedded AI where possible.
- Pragmatic about FOSS (open to both FOSS and proprietary if governance is good).
- Lifetime or one-time purchase is generally preferred for me, but I am fine with subscriptions where they make the most sense.
Hey all!
I’m DTLegit. Some of you might have seen me in Linux/privacy YouTube comments or on Discord. I’ve been aware of privacy and digital rights topics since around 2020, but only in the last month or so have I started seriously working on my own setup.
Right now I’m using macOS and LineageOS, still somewhat tied into Google/Microsoft services, and I also have a ChatGPT Plus subscription (more on AI below).
I have been getting increasingly uncomfortable with:
- OS-embedded AI: Copilot and Microsoft’s “Agentic OS” direction in Windows, Google Gemini on Android, Apple Intelligence on macOS/iOS.
- Expanding mass surveillance: age-verification mandates, content-scanning laws, etc.
- The general trend toward Digital ID mandates (not yet active in US Congress, and hoping it stays that way).
I’m not an activist, hacker, or criminal, and I’m not trying to hide from the NSA/FBI/CIA. I just want a robust, realistic setup that lets me live a normal life while not being constantly profiled, tracked, or pushed deeper into AI-heavy, data-hungry ecosystems.
Threat model & approach
My view is that privacy is a spectrum between convenience and security, and I’m trying to follow a “law of diminishing returns” approach:
- I want to move up the privacy ladder until the gains start to become very small compared to the effort, and stop around there.
- I don’t want to go so extreme that daily life becomes a chore or I can’t reasonably function in society.
Priorities:
- Avoid or minimize OS-embedded AI and “smart” features where possible.
- Reduce exposure to mass surveillance, age verification systems, and Digital ID.
- I’m not assuming highly targeted surveillance by intelligence agencies; I just don’t want to be an easy, always-on data source for big platforms, governments/law enforcement, and data brokers.
What I’m looking for advice on
High-level
- Does this threat model and “diminishing returns” approach make sense for someone like me (US-based, not high-risk)?
- Given my situation, how would you design a long-term privacy stack that doesn’t encourage constant tool-hopping?
More specific questions
Proton ecosystem vs diversification
- If you’re “all-in” on Proton (Mail/Calendar/Drive/VPN/Pass), how has that worked out for you over time?
- Do you prefer to mix and match “best in class” tools (e.g., Proton Mail + separate VPN + separate notes/photos), and if so, what pros/cons have you noticed?
- I’ve heard and considered some of The Hated One’s concerns, that he discussed on a couple of his Patreon podcasts, about going all-in on Proton as a single-vendor ecosystem. I’m not anti-Proton at all, but his points made me think more carefully about how much I centralize there.
Stack design
Based on what I’ve tried (below), what would you personally pick for:
- VPN(s)
- DNS
- Email/Calendar/Contacts
- Cloud storage (hosted vs self-hosted)
- Password manager (single vs hybrid approach)
- Notes (local vs cloud, which app?)
- Photos (Ente vs Immich, or something else?)
I’m aiming for a setup that balances privacy, reliability, cost, and low maintenance.
AI & cost
- I really like Kagi Ultimate (search + assistant), but together with Proton Visionary the total monthly cost starts to bother me.
- Are there cheaper, reasonably private alternatives that still give good access to models like Claude, ChatGPT, and Gemini, ideally without dragging me deeper into Big Tech ecosystems?
Data removal services
- Anyone have real-world experience with Optery, DeleteMe, or Incogni, especially compared to EasyOptOuts and DuckDuckGo Privacy Pro?
What I’ve tried / considered so far
VPN
Tried:
- IVPN
- ProtonVPN
- Mullvad
- Windscribe
- Mullvad via Tailscale
- Private Internet Access (PIA)
- DuckDuckGo VPN
Goal:
- A two-VPN setup:
- One for general use: streaming, torrenting, everyday browsing.
- One for higher privacy: when I want stronger anonymity and fewer ties to my identity.
Open to:
- Combinations like ProtonVPN for general use + Mullvad for privacy, or other pairings people recommend.
- Considering others like NordVPN, Surfshark, etc., if they make sense for my threat model and use case.
DNS
Currently using:
- ControlD (Full Control plan)
- NextDNS (paid)
I tend to prefer ControlD, but I’m open to:
- Sticking with a configurable paid service (ControlD/NextDNS), or
- Simplifying down to free options like Quad9 or Cloudflare if that’s better aligned with my needs.
Email / Calendar / Contacts
Currently:
- Tuta (Revolutionary)
- Proton (Visionary, upgraded from Ultimate)
I’d really appreciate opinions on:
- Long-term experiences with Tuta vs Proton for email, calendar, and contacts.
- Given my model and goals, is there a clear reason to lean heavily toward one or the other, or would going with a totally different provider be viable?
Cloud storage / “Drive”
Currently:
- Proton Drive:
- 6 TB from Proton Visionary, up from 500 GB from a previous Proton Unlimited plan
- pCloud:
- 5 TB lifetime bundle with the encryption (“pCloud Crypto”) add-on (Black Friday for $600)
I’m unsure whether to:
- Keep pCloud in the mix, or
- Gradually move toward a combination of:
- Self-hosting (e.g., Nextcloud for files, Immich for photos) for a “local cloud”, and
- Using Proton Drive mainly as my off-site, end-to-end encrypted cloud storage.
Given that I already have 6 TB via Visionary, I’m not sure pCloud justifies itself long term.
Password manager
Currently using:
- Free version of Bitwarden
I also bought a lifetime Proton Pass + SimpleLogin Premium deal (on top of getting them through Visionary) as a backup in case I leave Proton someday or can’t afford their full plans anymore.
Considering:
- A hybrid setup, such as:
- Proton Pass or Bitwarden for most accounts, and
- A separate manager like 1Password or KeePassXC for high-value accounts (banking, government, etc.).
Curious if people think this kind of “split risk” approach is sensible or just unnecessary complexity.
Email aliasing
Currently:
- Proton Pass / SimpleLogin
Pretty happy here, not really looking to change unless there’s something clearly superior for my needs.
Search
Currently bouncing between:
- Brave Search
- DuckDuckGo
- Kagi (Ultimate plan)
Kagi is my favorite in terms of results and experience, but price is starting to feel heavy when combined with everything else.
I’m open to:
- Suggestions on search setups that balance privacy, quality of results, and cost—even if that means using different engines for different tasks.
AI
Tools I’ve tried:
- DuckAI
- NanoGPT
- TypingMind
- Proton Lumo
- Brave Leo
- Kagi Assistant (Ultimate plan with premium models)
Impressions:
- Kagi Ultimate has been the best fit for me overall, but again, it’s expensive next to Proton Visionary.
Least favorites:
- Brave Leo: too tightly integrated into the Brave browser.
- TypingMind: juggling API keys for everything isn’t my ideal workflow.
Looking for:
- Cheaper, privacy-respecting options that still give me good access to Claude, ChatGPT, Gemini, etc., without locking me further into Big Tech ecosystems.
Data removal tools
Currently using:
- EasyOptOuts
- DuckDuckGo Privacy Pro
Both seem to work fine. EasyOptOuts at around $20/year is especially appealing.
Considering:
- Optery
- DeleteMe
- Incogni
I’d love to hear:
- Which ones you found effective,
- Whether they’re worth it as an alternative to EasyOptOuts/DDG,
- Or if they largely overlap.
Browsers
Currently:
- Google Chrome as my main browser.
Have tried:
- Brave
- Orion (on macOS)
- Firefox
Considering:
- Waterfox
- LibreWolf
- Ungoogled Chromium
- Or similar options.
What I want:
- I’m not super ideological about browsers; I just want something:
- Clean and functional
- Not packed with random features
- As little AI bloat as possible
Ideally:
- One Chromium-based browser
- One Firefox/Gecko-based browser
Open to any suggestions that fit these criteria and work well in practice.
Notes
I haven’t settled on anything yet. Considering:
- Notesnook
- Standard Notes (now owned by Proton)
- More local-first options like Joplin or Obsidian
What I’m looking for:
- Strong privacy
- Good cross-device experience
- Something I can realistically stick with for years without migrating my entire notes database yet again.
Photos
I know I could just use pCloud or Proton Drive, but I’d prefer a photo-focused experience with decent ML and search capabilities.
Considering:
- Ente Photos
- Immich (self-hosted later on, likely alongside Nextcloud)
Rough plan:
- Start with Ente Photos as a hosted solution.
- When my self-hosting setup is ready, move to Immich + Nextcloud for more control.
I’d love to hear which one people generally prefer and why, especially for someone moving off Google Photos–style workflows.
Current subscriptions & constraints
Main paid services right now:
- Proton Visionary
- Kagi Ultimate
- Windscribe Pro + ControlD
I’m considering:
- Replacing Kagi Ultimate and Windscribe Pro + ControlD with cheaper alternatives,
- While keeping Proton Visionary if I can, mostly because of:
- The value and breadth of the bundle, and
- Visionary’s unique advantages compared to Proton’s other plans with Duo, Family, and Unlimited
- The likelihood that once I cancel/downgrade, I might not be able to get it back.
I’ve also tried:
- DuckDuckGo’s subscription
- Brave Search + Leo Premium
DDG’s paid option seems like very good value for around $10/month. Brave Search is decent, Leo feels a bit barebones to me and too tied to the Brave browser.
Overall constraint: I’d like to keep my long-term stack to roughly 3–5 paid subscriptions.
FOSS stance
On the FOSS vs proprietary debate, I’m pretty pragmatic:
- I think both have their place. I don’t demand that everything be open source.
What matters most to me is:
- The governance,
- Track record, and
- Overall reputation of the devs or organization.
If something is open source, that’s a plus. If not, that’s okay as long as:
- It doesn’t work against the user’s interests,
- It’s not hostile or deceptive, and
- It genuinely tries to respect user privacy and autonomy.
Or in Louis Rossmann’s words, I just want software and services that “don’t screw me over.”
If you’ve read this far, thank you. I’d really appreciate:
- Feedback on my overall approach/threat model, and
- Example setups or concrete recommendations for how you’d build a sustainable stack in my situation.
Warm regards,
DTLegit